In the 9 or so months we've been playing, I think I've cum with #superaggressivefb maybe 5 times. He does better, but it's maybe 15?
We've played a whole lot more than that.
Good sex doesn't have to mean orgasm. Or anything even attempting to get there. Good sex is silly and fun and you get lost in the moment and its just about the fact you both enjoy whatever's going on and get turned on by it.
Orgasms are great. But not seeing them as the end goal is important I think. Kinksters are often better at this I think because so much of what they/we do is 'foreplay'
Good sex people, go get some.